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Commited To Love | Couples | Week 3

Cycle 1 | Week 3

Connecting With God

Someone pray for God to be with you and guide you through the meeting.

Confirming The Cgroup Values

ABOUT 3 MIN


Committed: We are committed to loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength and loving others like He loves us.


Confidential: We value and trust each other, so we share openly and honestly with each other and what is shared in the group stays in the group.


Changing: We are growing to be more like Jesus, obeying His commands and filled with His Spirit.


Christ-Centered: In Jesus, we find God’s presence to guide us, His grace to forgive us, and His power to change us.


AcCountable: We encourage each other, help each other and expect each other to love and live like Jesus.


Connected: We meet every week, pray for each other every day, and share our lives as we obey and follow Jesus together.


Capable: By His Holy Spirit, God gives us the love and power we need to obey and follow Jesus.


Commissioned: We are all commissioned by Jesus to make disciples, so we are all committed to starting new cgroups for others who are ready to follow Jesus.


Consistent: We consistently follow this guide because it is based on God’s word and it helps equip each member to lead cgroups and to make disciples.

Connecting Through Scripture

(About 20 min)

Scripture Memory

Take turns sharing your memory verse from last week, Mark 12:30-31, repeating the reference before and after quoting the verse.  


Your memory verse for this week is Luke 19:10.

Lesson Scripture

Someone pray for God to speak through His word. Then someone read the following passages.


Luke 19: 1-10

 

1Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through. 2A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was wealthy. 3He wanted to see who Jesus was, but because he was short he could not see over the crowd. 4So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him, since Jesus was coming that way.

5When Jesus reached the spot, he looked up and said to him, “Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today.”6So he came down at once and welcomed him gladly.

7All the people saw this and began to mutter, “He has gone to be the guest of a sinner.”

8But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, “Look, Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount.”

9Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house, because this man, too, is a son of Abraham.10For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.”

Video Lesson

Discussion Questions

1. What are your initial thoughts to Jesus singling Zacchaeus out in the story?


2. Share of a moment when YOU were Zacchaeus being sought out and loved by followers of Jesus.


3. How did that help bring you into your relationship with the Lord?


4. Jesus was intentional about “seeking and saving” what was lost. Who are those Unconnected (Lost) people in your life that God is calling you to “seek out” and love?


5. Share of experiences where you currently do this or have in the past.


6. Spend time together (or by yourself) in prayer for those Unconnected (Lost) people in your life.

Caring For Unconnected Friends

(about 5 mins)


Caring for unconnected friends (P.A.L.S.)

Take turns reading the simple steps for reaching out to unconnected friends (PALS).

  • PRAY: We pray because we love them.
  • ASK: We ask questions because we care.
  • LISTEN: We listen to understand them.
  • SHARE: We share what Jesus has done in our lives and what He can do in theirs.


Each member answer one or more of the following questions:

  • Who would you like the group to join you in praying for this week?
  • What question do you need to ask an unconnected friend to show that you care?
  • How have you grown in your love for an unconnected friend as you have listened to them and the Holy Spirit this week?
  • Who do you need to share the gospel or your testimony with this week?
  • Is there an unconnected friend you need to invite to a community group?
  • Do you need to start a new Cgroup for someone who is ready to follow Jesus?


Connecting Through Sharing

(About 10 min)


Let each person choose and answer one Confession Question and one Celebration Question. (Please be concise so everyone has time to share.)


Share your confessions

  • What has been your greatest challenge or temptation recently?
  • What intentional or unintentional sins do you need to confess?
  • What doubts or questions do you have?
  • Have you communicated or connected with someone this week in a way that was tempting or inappropriate?
  • Have you watched, read or listened to anything this week that could be considered pornographic or inappropriate?
  • Is there something God is telling you to share even though you would rather not?


Share your celebrations

  • What has God done that you want to praise and thank Him for?
  • When did God give you victory over a temptation?
  • When were you obedient to God, and how did it turn out?
  • How have you seen God at work in your life?

Commitment To Life Change

 (about 5 mins)


• Based on what God has shown me today, what am I going to start, stop or continue doing this week?

• committing to a Daily Bible Reading Plan (see Daily Readings in the Christ United app or christislove.org/daily-devotions)

Accountability And Connection

 (about 5 mins)


• How are we going to connect to encourage each other during the week?

• When are we going to connect for worship and the word this week?

• When are we connecting to serve together this month?

• When are we connecting again for fun and fellowship?

• Who missed this cgroup meeting? Who is going to reach out to them?

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